Sadness or depression over what didn’t go well at your wedding, meaning the cause of post wedding blues could be wedding hiccups; these are inevitable incidences that happen on ones big day. I doubt there’s a wedding without one hiccup anyways. 
God! Save my soul. This matter tie wrapper o and it is not funny in some cases. 
There are serious/critical and not so critical wedding hiccups. A bride said her wedding gown zip got worn out a moment before church service…hiccup!One left wedding ring/Bible in the hotel and pastor gave it to them hot before the whole church..hiccup!One said his bride didn’t get to church until after the hymnal…everybody was so disturbed till she ran in…and they were exchanging wedding vows immediately 
(the groom was obviously fuming with anger)…hiccup!One bride couldn’t find her bridal shoes and had to wear sandal to church …..hiccup!A bride is still somewhere crying over the hall that was badly decorated, the wedding gown train that tore as she made her way into the church, and cake made like fufu or eba 
The camera man who later realised he was just flashing shots, no wedding pictures 
(chai I can sue this photographer o) o wrong nau. Some couples don’t have a wedding album 
The critical one is when there is an issue causing a heated disagreement between couple on their big day. Chai!Some fights actually started from the wedding ceremony. I heard of a groom who left his bride at the wedding reception cos he was angry.How about when fight breaks out between in-laws at the wedding. 
Fada lawd! This is eweee!I have attended a number of wedding like this and witnessed the sorrow on the faces of the couples plus some issues don’t get resolved in days, weeks, Months but years later. How about when a wedding party ended with people breaking bottles on one another’s head? #chaos How about someone whose bride was carried away on the wedding day? Not kidnappers o, the bride’s kinsmen organised this to stop their daughter from marrying a pastor The shocker is that this matter was resolved same day but long hours after many of their guests had left. The bride’s kinsmen were appeased and the pastor joined the couple 
No tell me, how would this bride not have blues after wedding.? She cried !Do you know what? This couple are still married today. Both of them are missionaries in Ghana. We visited them during our last vacation there. Check out Daddy Samuel Shittu. You need to read his book titled “SHAKE WELL BEFORE USE”We had a number of hiccups on our big day too)Was it the one my relatives came late for my early morning engagement…I had to rush to the venue to meet my husband with my gele tied just anyhow They deprived me my photoshoots Was it the one I almost didn’t want to continue my dance entry into our reception cos our caterer allowed relatives to take over serving our food…Or the one I was so disorganised and not enjoying my reception because my focus was on my guests who weren’t served food on time…The one I was so nervous in fear of my relatives starting a fight with my mom cos of our background 
Oh goodness, I was half present on my wedding day. All I wanted was to just get married and run to my husband’s house. but really we had a good time and a fine wedding nobody has ever had in my family. Our Marriage has given and still giving us great memories. 
So wedding hiccups has a way of leaving you with melancholy feelings which if not well managed can linger on into your marriage and deprive you of the happiness of that season. My counsel is to focus on what went right in your wedding ceremony, remember it was a ceremony. Yes, the news will not last forever. The sad feelings should die. You are joined as husband and wife. This is an achievement 
. Even a governor had two women fighting and one got served a hot delicious slap during his swearing in ceremony yet governor focused on his swearing in papers, he signed and still gave a speech 
Oh mai goist.Are you joined as husband and wife? You are married lobatan. Period. I remember a groom who made out with his ex on the eve of their wedding yet the wedidng continued the next day. #hmmm The bride raped on the morning of her wedding…Groom served the breakfast of his bride’s sex video with an unknown man on the morning of their wedding..If the incident that collapsed with your wedding day happiness was that bad and the memories keep haunting you, consider seeing a counselor. Then all hope is not lost; you and your spouse can consider a Vow Renewal Service later in the years. What is vow renewal service? A service where you retake your marital vow (you can wear your wedding gown or evening dress) then have a mini honeymoon to create the memories you’ve always wanted
Read my previous articles on Wedding Hiccups 
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2291759037563576&id=100001885071238https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2293551030717710&id=100001885071238Esther EBUNOLUWA Omoniyi omoniyiesther1@gmail.com
